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Cunnilingus Is An Artful Skill
Read How to Give Great Oral Sex
To Your Woman
Oral sex is nothing new. People and animals have used
their lips and tongues for sexual excitement for eons. Oral sex is more than
just genital sex. It also includes kissing and licking the woman's
neck, ears, breasts, back, clit and vulva area. The Latin
word “cunnilingus” was the word that was used to described that area.
Oral sex of any of these areas can produce sexual stimulation.
Having oral sex with your partner is very
erotic. Most men enjoy giving oral stimulation to their woman. They
enjoy the excitement they get from it. But a good percentage of men
refuse to do it. It is difficult to know if they just don’t want to or
not sure how too.
Even more women don’t want their man to go down there
out of fear the man will not like it. But when she does open her legs
and allow herself to relax and let their man’s mouth and tongue explore that area most
women will come to
enjoy it. Women know by giving oral sex to a man, that they will
release his
pleasure fountain, where a man must listen for and get signals from
their woman of her excitement and enjoyment or lack of it.
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many adult dating services where men and women can meet other individuals
or couples in adult sexual friendships to explore your sexual pleasures.
So enjoy and have fun learning and exploring the sexual passion of
cunnilingus. (Her oral sex.)
For great oral sex both men and women may need to practice "letting
go", which for some might not be easy. This applies to oral sex to men and
oral sex to women. Some women never will let go and some men never let go.
Always remember if you are in a relationship this is only a small part of
your sexual being. Keep working on the quality of your day to day
relationship if this is between a couple. Talk to her about how
about everything as she should talk to you about. Remember
relationship is about tenderness, appreciation, enjoyment between
two people including sexual enjoyment. Always try to create the condition
under which both of you can explore your sex life more fully.
If you want to just get more sexual with your partner or try swinging
or some other experience, then just let go and go for it. When I agreed to
write this article it was out of my enjoyment of having adult sex with
others and my commitment to the person I love. Now lets start reading about
oral sex.
Pleasing your woman is
not that complicated. First and foremost question that is most
commonly asked regarding oral sex, is if it
dangerous. Oral sex with a healthy man or woman who doesn’t have any STD’s is
not dangerous. If you suspect someone having any STD you should not
have mouth or genital contact.
One thing a man should not do is to take a deep
breath and blow hard into the woman's vagina. This could in rare cases
cause an embolism and possible death. Although it is very difficult
to blow into the sealed opening of the vagina, it is not recommended.
How To Give Great Oral Sex To Your Woman

Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your
finger is wet. Unlike a man, a woman doesn’t need as much friction as a man.
You can lick your finger or moisten it with juices from
inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit
because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely
sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if its dry. Remember your goal is to give
your woman a great oral experience and one or more
great orgasms in the process.
Before she becomes aroused you don’t want to just go
down on her clit right a way. Unlike a male who desires a woman to attack his penis
with her mouth, women usually have to work up to it. Her clit is very delicate until she gets
aroused. So avoid direct contact until she is aroused. How do you know
when the woman is aroused? She starts to moan, gets more wet, her
nipples start to get harder or she may direct you to go a little higher
or lower to find the best spot. Most of the time it is not by words, but her body movements.
Our male readers have told us that the women they have
met all of them enjoyed oral sex and by the time the woman's clothes were off, their
nipples were erect and sensitive. This is one reason both men and women enjoy adult intimate
contact with more than one man or woman. If you are looking for a hot
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for everyone to enjoy.
I will use a few slang
terms here and there. The reason for
this is most people do not use the clinical names of each body part when
talking about sex. It just makes it little less clinical and more erotic.
HOW TO APPROACH A WOMAN'S PUSSY
Unless the woman is turned on just by the thought of
sex, you should approach her pussy slowly. That does not mean you should
take 20 minutes to get from their breast to her pussy either. Women love
to tease their man before sex, but during sex they enjoy getting tasted if it
is leads up to their getting oral sex. One of the great spots is the
woman’s inner part of her thigh. This is a very sensitive area
and is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss
it, and maybe even small non-painful bites. How about trying making
letters or designs on it with the tip of your tongue? Now it's time to get
her pussy. I know you want to tease her a little more. But
if your ready, get very
close to her clit, brush your lips against it then move your tongue away. Make her anticipate
it, want it and most of all desire it.
Press your face close
and start licking the area where her leg
joins her pelvic area. Right in the crevice. If she is not shaved or
trimmed, then nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit
without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this
for a minute or two, you might feel that she is pushing up towards you. Before
long. if she is relaxed, she will be very sexually excited and she will be
straining to get more of your mouth, tongue and lips closer to her clit.
Now she is ready! Put your lips right on top of her
slit. You are now going give her the joy of oral sex. Start gently at
first then press harder. Use your tongue to separate her pussy lips. Now
start to run your tongue up and down and between the lips. This would be
about the same speed most guys would enjoy a women going up and down on their
penis shaft.
In order to get to her clit better, the woman's legs
must be open. If she has not done so, then spread her legs more with your
hands. From this point on everything you do is focused on pleasing
her.
Also at this point many women want to have
intercourse instead of oral sex. If you are a man who
enjoys pleasing a woman, tell her that it is her time to enjoy oral sex and
that you
want her to have an orgasm this way. Tell her how good it tastes between
your licks. Make the wet sounds with your lips. Give her the best oral sex
possible.
Tongue-fuck her. About half of the women enjoy a
good tongue-fucking. Tongue fucking is using your tongue to go around and
inside her vagina What the man does is to use his tongue to go in and
out of the vagina like you would with a penis. If
your woman is not getting more turned on, then go back to her clitoris
[clit]. There is nothing wrong with bringing the woman to the edge and
then backing off as long you do end the session with her having one or
more great
orgasms. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for
her clit. You may barely experience it's presence since it may be hiding.
Think of a clit as a tiny pearl of joy. In may feel about that size. You
can make it become more erect by licking the skin that covers it. It is
now time to finish pleasing her. Lick hard now and press into the
skin of her clit. She should be about ready to cum. Her
body will start to shake and she will be pushing her rear off the bed
toward your face. Her nipples will become very erect and you will know
when she is coming. Most of the time a woman will not want to have
several in the row at first. But the more she lets you have oral sex with
her and her wiliness to let you keep eating her, she will have more
orgasms within twenty to twenty-five minutes. The problem is that most women will
not let their man continue unless they have experienced it before. The clit
gets so sensitive that most women report they don’t think they could take
a lot of licking. When a woman allows herself to experience it, it is mind
blowing to her. It is that good!
You might be reading this just to find out how to
give oral sex to your wife or girlfriend. Or you might be the wife or
girlfriend who would like to add to the way you get pleasure. Either way, I'm
glad you took the time to learn about the art Of Oral Sex On Your Woman.
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"We have a lot of respect for all of the guys who
like to give good oral sex to women. There are very few of you out there;
maybe close to extinction. And I'm not the only woman who says this. When
we find a man that gives great oral pleasures, we've found ourselves a treasure.
Far more valuable than jewels and we won't let go of him soon. This is
one of a rare kind and every woman should know this. We won't even tell
our friends about him or that guy will become the most popular man in
town. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it
very well, but the guy who performs good oral sex on a woman, he's got it
made.
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