Sexual Advice, Heighten His Orgasm. Adult Oral Sex Tips.   Advice on giving him great oral sex he will not forget.   Part 3 - Your enjoyment of giving him great head.

- How to give a Quality Blowjob Part 1:  Adult Advice Give Him Great Oral Sex  

- How to find his G spot,. Taking his stiff cock inside your mouth and more -

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- Heighten his Orgasm and get great enjoyment out of giving him great oral sex.

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LESSON SIX  -Heighten his Orgasm!

Let's now heighten his orgasm even more with a refinement of your skills.  Place your thumb at the very base of the penis.  What you are going to do is to block the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen. If at the same time you suck him with everything you have directly on the head of his cock.  By doing both, you can delay his orgasm for several long moments and exciting seconds. When you finally allow the cum to spurt, it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result.  Keeping the man on the edge can add to his orgasm.  Just keep your man on the edge once and you will see how hard he will cum and you will love having the power to do it. When I make a man cum I love to  heighten his Orgasm.

What I have found if you delay him from coming for only a few short moments you will be surprised by the intensity of his orgasm.  These techniques are the basis on a large number of men I have pleased by oral sex from adult friend finders. 

After you have mastered the above you are ready for much more. You are becoming an expert in giving a BJ.  When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more  advanced techniques and great pleasures for your man. Also if you have more than one man to please you will learn even more.  That is one advantage of my being a part time swinger.  So why don't you do some self discovery? Find out what works for you and for your sexual partners and make your oral skills giving BJs as individual as your fingerprint. After all, you want your man to pick you out in the dark among 20 other  hot women. I bet most men could pick me out by the way I'm pleasing them. Giving a man oral sex is great when done right. He will  want you badly over and over again.  

LESSON SEVEN - You don't have to gag having oral sex with your guy.

For some gagging can be a problem.  For me, the first thing I encountered when I  started giving bj's was the gag reflex. Most men like as much of their shaft in your mouth as possible. Some will even want to force their shaft down your throat as far as they can get it. Just about all men, when they get close to cumming,  will push your head down so you will take them deep.  Now let's look at oral sex.  Consider the average length of your oral cavity is about three to four inches while the average shaft is between five and a half inches to six and a half inches. 70% are within this range. Thus getting all of it in your mouth is impossible 

But there are other ways!  You can master the necessary technique to fit most shafts deep into your mouth.  What you need to do is to take the shaft into your mouth and down your throat.  The biggest obstacle to taking all of his cock down your throat.  The is that there is a bend of almost eighty degrees behind your tongue.  This then leads down your throat.  The first thing to do is get the hard on  past that angle. In order to use this method, get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your sexy body sprawled across the bed, this will  tilt you head back sharply. This will align your mouth and throat  in such a way that the insertion of his dick can be made very easily.  In fact, it is common that his pubic hair will be pressing your hot lips.  Of course, you don't have to take it this deep. Some women don't like the taste of  semen and if he is cumming you still can feel it but back that far there is hardly any taste. As for myself, I love the taste of a man's juices.

LESSON EIGHT - How deep is deep

If you  maintain this relaxation as he goes deep into your throat then you can take any length of a dick into your mouth.  It is a big turn on for a guy if you let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still for a few seconds at first. The more you do it the better it feels. You can now give your partner greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock.  Hopefully you are getting really wet down below by now.  If you are able try to stimulate his shaft  with your tongue, go for it! If you are letting him do it, your guy  is in full control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion and him being in control of going so deep will knock his balls off so to speak.  This is the only time giving BJ's in which you relinquish your control of the situation to your sexual partner.  Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like going all the way but this time it is your mouth. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. A lot of women have taken a man into their mouths but not too many deep down their throat.  Oral sex for a man is one of the great sexual  pleasures in his life.  One other word of caution, he will love the feeling of this.

Now he has a few options where to plant his seed.   At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his cock all the way inside your mouth opening.  Let him pick where to cum.  Most men enjoy seeing and feeling his sperm unloading inside your mouth.  They get off big time doing this.  But if he cums deep, you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing his cum.  Without a condom,  his sperms will shoot or flow directly into your stomach.

Will everyone be able to do the "deep throat" technique?  Well, maybe not everyone, but if you try hard enough you will be on your way of becoming his best sexual partner ever.  If you are new to this tell your partner that you are.  Men always like thinking they are the first and if it is the truth so be it.  Now if the man's shaft is thick, which is a little larger than the inside of a toilet paper roll, it will be more difficult for you to deep throat him. If if your guy is much thicker than average, just focus on the head of this dick until he is about to cum  then try to go as deep as you can.   Many women can do this for a few seconds without any problem even with a thick dick.

LESSON NINE  -  Oral Sex is The Ultimate Gift When Done Right.

THE ULTIMATE:   Now here is what men desire the most from a blow job. I have given oral at least  2000 times since I started and on more than 100 men.  Each man wants the woman to treat his dick like they  just won a huge prize.  They want to see YOUR passion and desire to please him.  They want you to go for it.   The ultimate blow job for a man is not just you sucking him off, but your falling in love with his dick for the time you are doing him. You are in position where he can see it, to feel it and for you to taste it. When he is unloading he probably will not see too much.  Most men can't keep their eyes open when they are unloading their seed.  So make sure he can see what you are doing to him after he cums!!! His cum filling your mouth or leaking out around the corner of your mouth.  Leave his cum on your face for a little longer.  If he is watching let about half or more of his cum flow back onto his dick, then lick it up again.   Then go down as deep as you can and let your lips suck off any remaining cum from his shaft.  

Then look directly into his eyes and say "how was that"?  or  "Wow!"  All at the same time having a huge satisfied smile on your face.  If you still have his seed on your mouth area or maybe on your chin,  use your finger and wipe it up and then suck it off your finger.  What a rush that will give him. For most men the sucking part is very exciting but the most stimulating part is during and after he starts to ejaculate.  Your treating his cum is a very erotic and special gift that will blow his mind.  Remember sex starts and ends in the mind. So the more excitement and passion you put into it, the more both you and he  will enjoy it.

Lesson Nine was so important I will stress to you again what you really need to do to make this the ultimate climax and a blowjob he will remember.

As for what I enjoy,   I enjoy how the guy reacts to the entire experience. I enjoy feeling a hard dick.  If someone is taking a video of it, I get to watch it later and watch his total reaction.  Even the guy likes to watch his cum running out around my lips and gosh his cock may still be hard.   For the guy, its what you do after he unloads that is equally if not more important that what you did up to that point. For the next minute or so you can  play with his cum with your tongue and lips.  Remember take your time.  Make sure he can look down and  see you enjoy what your effort resulted in.   Both of you will be very happily surprised by the intensity he experiences by your doing this.  Your excitement plays a big role in the intensity of his orgasm plus it should get you very wet at the same time.  Tell him how much you enjoyed his cock and cum.  He will feel like a king and want to pass out.  That's how intense it is.  And if you keep licking until there is not one drop of cum left on his body, whoa!!!!  This  will be the part of blow job he will always remember and will always want to do over and over again.   What your man just experienced is the ultimate of all blow jobs he or any man can have.    If you have the desire, you will get this one down pat and your man will never look at blow jobs in the same way again!  As for the cum, the semen/precum hardly tastes much like anything.   As for the ejaculate, it certainly can have a range of tastes each time depending on what he has ingested.  Soon you will learn to think of it as either as sweet wild cherry or sour or bitter.  It never tastes bad,  just different.   So enjoy, when you are not in the tasting   mood to give the ultimate,  just take his cock really deep into your throat and you'll hardly taste it at all.  But when you take it, you'll know you just gave him something to remember.  

LESSON TEN -  The Family Jewels and More.

Let's look at another portion of your partner's private parts.  Giving him the best you can offer is very important this includes his jewels.  Don't forget them or ignore the pleasure he will get by your touching and licking them.  Of course, I'm talking about his balls.  Here are two small sacks that you can use to enhance your partner's experience and feelings more than any other outside of his head.  Many partners don't think of  the balls as primary sexual objects, but they are. Many men are extremely sensitive down there.  But as I pointed out they also can take a pounding during intercourse.  Also remember this is where the  pearls of delight are produced.  Think of his balls as the entire package. 

So let's start this lesson. Begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue.  Depending on what activity you guy has just completed, it can be a little salty but take a little water and spread it over with your tongue.   As you lick his balls, also touch his nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want to gently caress the head of his dick with your hand while you are bathing his now wet balls with your tongue.

Remember, be gentle because going to hard at first can bring on  pain and he will go soft. After a minute or two of bathing his balls, you can  take both of them or one of them in your mouth.  Again, do it where he can open his eyes and see you enjoying it.   If your partner shaves down there, then you won't have to worry about the tiny hairs on his testicles. If some hairs do get into your mouth, remove then discreetly. However, if you get his balls completely wet using your mouth and tongue  you will have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac. Thus, it is less likely to them into your mouth. Remember, the testicles are part of  foreplay leading up to the ultimate BJ. This foreplay is a very important part of getting your man hot. The sensations for your man is well worth it  when you take the time to enjoy his testicles!

LESSON ELEVEN-  Anal Licking, also call rimming, analingus or putting your tongue into his or her ass.

At first I was not sure I was going to include this into my lesson plan, however, I believe it is truly part of the stimulus package.  First and foremost, only do this if the guy has taken a bath and shower not too long before your start.   If you are planning to do this, I would suggest that you take a shower with him and wash him very well.  This also applies to men who want to do this to a woman.  As for the ladies, if you are planning to have intercourse in the doggy position also make sure your down under is washed and sweet smelling.  Okay, let's get to the oral part now.

Anal licking as it is called, is putting ones tongue into the anal opening. However, most just call it ass licking, ass sucking or rimming.  Again, be clean.  Baby wipes work good but a shower is better.   If you are not completely sure that your man doesn't have any type of hepatitis, then don't do it.  This is optional oral sex but doing it with a clean, safe and disease free partner is very important.   

 For this lesson, place your partner on his back with his legs in the air and his knees close to his shoulders. This spreads open his buttocks and allows easy access to his to his butthole. You are probably under the impression that actual penetration or deep penetration of his ass itself is necessary for your partner to receive the most satisfaction. Well, that is not true. The major nerve endings are around the anus itself. So the opening and the first inch inside is everything.  Licking around that area and just inside the ass is all that is needed.  This method hardly ever will make the man come by itself, BUT adds to whatever you are doing to him at that time.   I have seen guys shooting their loads more powerful than without this extra stimulus.   Again, not all partners are desirous of this form of oral sex, so be sure your partner wants to participate.  If he does, then he will certainly remember how great you made him feel.   

Another way to do oral anal, is to have the man get in a doggy position with his ass pointing up into the air.  The advantage here is that you don't have the bed in the way and you can put your tongue deeper in him.  But it is also hard to jerk him off in this position.  Your guy can jerk himself off while feeling this very intense pleasure.   Oral anal is a powerful stimulant and when combined with other activities such as a vigorous hand stimulation on his throbbing shaft, it  will cause a rapid and powerful cum!

LESSON TWELVE - Some finger fun to give him.

Most people use their fingers or a dildo for added fund. Some people enjoy fingering an ass with a  plastic glove.  I enjoy getting a smaller dildo that has a mini vibrator in it.  But  for this lesson we will start with  your finger. As you are slowly giving head begin a slow playful search around his ass. Many men never had this done to them or are particularly sensitive in this area as we already know by the prior lesson.   If you have massage oil it makes entry much easier.  As your partner's ass relaxes, entry becomes easier.  Go slowly while exploring the velvety sensations along the sides of his opening. Go in and out slowly and let it build.   When your finger is inside his asshole completely you will be at the area of the prostate gland.  The prostate area is the most stimulating with your finger.  Massage this gland by your finger and it will produce some of the most delightful sensations for your partner.  You will see a lot more precum than norm.  If you are blowing him,  do go up and down at the same speed as the in and out.   If he is jerking himself, then do the same but also be sure to lick his balls from time to time.  When he starts to cum, push up very firmly with each shot of cum.  Don't stop for a good ten seconds or more after he unloaded. 

LESSON THIRTEEN -  How to Vibrate a Penis.

A dildo mini-vibrator works exceptionally well for this type of stimulus. It is just the same length as the average finger and due to the vibrations that it produces the sensations against the prostate gland are enhanced many times more.  But a vibrator can also make the man soft since it is very excruciatingly sensitive.  But if he can hang in there, he will be happily surprised on the intensity of his powerful orgasm.  He will want to use his vibrator again and again.

Vibrator and the Penis.  Many people have questioned me about a vibrator around the penis itself. Does it add to the sensation or not? First, you need a electric vibrator that has a lower and more throbbing vibration. You need to find your man's G spot and hold it there. If he had an erection, his cock will soften until right before he unloads. This is not because he is not turned on.  It is just the opposite.  It is because the stimulus is very high and if he can take the 20-30 minutes of being on the edge, he will experience perhaps one his most forceful unloadings that he has ever seen.   I have seen it where a man who normally just dribbles with cum, shoots way over his head.   It really is a sight to watch if you guy is willing to take it.  Most men will want to cum sooner since being on the edge is so hard to take.  If he just can't take the vibrator by itself, I would suggest licking his shaft or balls.  This should put him over the edge.  I suggest as long as you have the vibrator handy anyway, try it around the penis.

LESSON FOURTEEN  - How to Give a BJ in  Ten Minutes or  Less

There are times when you will want to get him off in a hurry! But because I want you to become an expert at all aspects of oral lovemaking I deliberately waited until now to introduce this technique. It differs from lesson four in that you are more understanding of  how to give oral sex to your man.   Place your lips around the head of your partner's cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not require much cocksucking at all. It is also a great way to make a man with a large or very thick dick to come.

This works simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on your partner's dick.  It is not necessary to be skillful, you just do it and keep to the same sensitive area of his penis.  All that is necessary is for you to do is to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area which is not hard to find.  By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick powerful cum. It is not necessary to bob your head up and down to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he has ejaculated.  This is a fast way to get his fire started for another round of pleasure. 

LESSON FIFTEEN 

Sixty- nine is not always the perfect way to provide your partner oral satisfaction. Inadvertently one of you will "let up" your end of the cocksucking in order to experience the subtle pleasures the other partner is giving you. For this reason I have included it as the final lesson. Many people think that the deep throat technique is the ultimate pleasure you can give your partner. Actually I believe that sixty-nine is the ultimate pleasure. Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in tune with each others innermost desires, the sixty nine is the ultimate. But because of the problem mentioned earlier in this lesson, most people practice it too early and it becomes an intensely satisfying experience for one partner at the expense of the other. When you are completely on each other's wavelength you will discover that this is the most effective way of giving as well as receiving pleasure.

LESSON SIXTEEN

This is a open book lesson.  You become the teacher and pleasure with passion, desires and skill.   Find your guy and tell him this coming week you are going to suck him off each day of the week.  During that time period I want you to try what you have learned about giving head and to what works best for you and your man.  There are many ways to please him by giving head.  Send us your responses to bjhead@adualtdatingsiteonline.com.  By doing so your lesson could be the next lesson or addition to others.  I'm sure your partner would love to see the next lesson based on his pleasures. You don't receive any money or products and but you will get the satisfaction that your method may please thousands of men soon.  So open your mouth, keep your guy enjoying your being his cocklover.  It's a great way to keep him desiring you too..